Showing Appreciation

Appreciation can make a day, even change a life. Your willingness to put it into words is all that is necessary.
- Margaret Cousins

I want every day to be a new adventure, and every person to be a new friend. When I set out from my home on Elshimo Island to become an adventurer, I vowed to myself that I wanted people to like me, and that I would make lots and lots of new friends.

Lately I’ve been thinking about showing people your appreciation, and taking the time to show them that you value their efforts. I wrote an entry about encouraging people a few years ago, and it’s never been a better time to start to be honest.

My favorite job has always been White Mage. White Mages have the pleasure of teleporting people when they need to get somewhere, tend the wounds of weary adventurers and raise the unfortunate ones. Some have become my close friends, and some have helped me in countless ways. I’m eternally grateful for the things they have done.

Galadrial in Whitegate

Showing people your appreciation is easy. A simple thank you is all it takes. Yet no one really takes the time to thank others for their hard work. Some, especially those in the east, show their appreciation for even the little things, like getting a teleport. You are an awesome Red Mage, thank you for keeping me refreshed! Just a simple line like that is enough to put a smile on someone’s face. Sure, it may be “their job” to keep you refreshed, but show them that you appreciate them helping you.

Take a moment to think about how someone you know have helped you. Maybe they gave you a valuable item once, or just cast Silena on your for the 108th time. Thank them for being a good friend. I’m not saying you should send them 108 tells, thanking them for casting Silena on them though.

Imagine how encouraged people would be if you took the time to thank two or three people every day.

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LINGAN
May 28th, 2009
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THANK YOU KIMIKO!!! (yes i meant to use caps)

thank you for being an wonderful writer and over-all great sounding person. thank you to everyone i ever forgot to thank for doing the small things we take for granted and the big ones we all rave about.

its so easy to critize the bad things or mistakes we all make….. “thank you” is just as vital!

i have been away from the game lately due to severe lack of interest (/sigh) but its nice to hear that not everyone is LEET and general @$$holes about gear.

its people like you. Kimiko and members of my LS that make me wanna keep playing.

so /cheers to Kimiko and everyone else who plays fair! and oh yea…. THANKS :)

Maiev
June 1st, 2009
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Now you made me feel bad :( I should show appreciation for providing a pleasant read on your adventurer :x

In terms of appreciation in game… yea. A thank you goes a long way and I do think people need to show a little bit more of that.

Sometimes I think SE should change that “don’t forget work play or sleep friends” message when you press the play button to something a little random, like sometimes it’d spit out “don’t forget to buy mog bonanza” or “a thank you goes a long way” kinda stuff…

As always, good read and keep it up Kimiko v2 XD

Miths
June 5th, 2009
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Thanks for you comment a couple months ago, I got aggro-ed by final year of college and have been inactive for like a year.

Just finished college though, hopefully I can start seeing you again in Vanadiel ^_^

Akeda
June 16th, 2009
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I don’t know where you play but on Kujata it’s expected to say thanks when you get help. Sometimes people will even thank each other in a party for being healed at just the right moment.

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